2. Neon or fluorescent colors: too strong for a moment of tranquility
Why it’s inappropriate:Neon pink, electric yellow, lime green: these shades scream “look at me!”They are in stark visual contrast to the dignity and quiet of a funeral.It can come across as disrespectful, superficial, or even mocking, especially to older generations.
The Psychology of Color:Bright fluorescent lights are very visually stimulating: perfect for concerts or workouts, but too intense in quiet, reflective spaces.Grieving families may already be feeling emotionally distressed. Bright colors can increase stress.✅Best choice: Soft pastel colors are sometimes acceptable for spring or summer shoots, but it’s best to keep them muted and understated.
Ask yourself: Does my outfit suit my mood… or does it clash with it?🚫3. White (in most Western cultures) — Reserved for joyWhy it’s inappropriate:In Western traditions, white is associated with weddings, purity, and new beginnings.
Wearing an all-white dress to a funeral can be mistaken for a bridal look, which is deeply inappropriate in a house of mourning.Even crisp white shirts or blouses can stand out too much if they aren’t balanced out with darker layers.Important exception:In Hindu, Buddhist, and some African cultures, white is the traditional color of mourning: it is worn by mourners to symbolize purity, peace, and the soul’s journey.
In these contexts, white is not just acceptable, it’s expected.✅Rule of thumb: Learn about your family’s cultural or religious traditions. When attending a religious service outside your culture, adhere to their customs.💬When in doubt: It’s always better to ask than to assume.
